bad day!!!

today is a bad day...
because so many problem faced by me...
1)family
-my father n mother can not go to my brother konvo day...
-it makes comflict among my father n brother...
-y tis should happen?someone tell me plz...

2)love
-today is my ex-gf birthday...
-when i think her bf will be with her 2 celebrate birthday,my heart will feel hurt...

3)friend
-my one friend say she likes me...
-but i dun know wat i wan now...
-she is at sibu now...
-she is juz a little girl...
-i treat her like my sister...
-i afraid if i refuse her,our relationship will not be as good as before...
-wat should i do?